Saturday, May 17, 2008

Graduation day!


Congratulations graduates! Here is Rexie and Wyatt in their caps. Rexie has assumed her usual pose in this picture. Can I just comment that it is VERY difficult to get 5 people and dog to look at the camera and not make goofy faces?


Wyatt, Rexie, Levi and Steve are all smiles because we graduated.

Alex and SD Treasure

Sarah and SD Wonder

Friday, May 16, 2008

More Graduates

Trey and SD Promise

Nick and Liese

Adam and SD Kita-BooAlexa and SD Joy
The crowds cheered on the graduates at the 4 Paws training center!

Thursday, May 15, 2008

THE BIG DAY >>>THE BIG TEST!

Do I REALLY have to take that test today, Mom?

The funniest part about this picture is that WYATT took it! He said, "Rexie does not want to go to school today because she has to take the test, and if she flunks I can't be her boy." I reassured him that there was NO WAY this mommy and daddy would let anyone take our Rexie away from her boy and we had studied very hard and would do our VERY best!


This is Karen Shirk, Executive Director and Founder of 4 Paws for Ability. This is the lady who started out on a mission to improve the quality of lives of dogs and people who do not "fit the mold." 4 Paws is really amazing. Please take the time to read about it at www.4pawsforability.org Karen, Jeremy and the staff there love animals and ovals. Hurrah for 4 Paws!

This is Wyatt and Rexie posing sweetly for a picture. Can you see both of their smiles?
Many of the 4 Paws puppies are adopted from shelters. This little sweetie (the puppy - not the chickie) is part of their breeding program. Some of the dogs have temprements and talents that make them exceptional service dogs. So, 4 Paws does some selective breeding of these animals. All of the SDs that are put into public work are neutered. (Can't have those kind of distractions, can we now? giggle)
This is most of the graduating class right before the diplomas were handed out. Ummm... someone remind me to not wear red until I lose another 40 lbs. Dang, I look like Santa! Rexie is sniffing Joy's butt. Gross. Why do dogs do that? Am I the only person who thinks that is weird? Kind of makes me glad I am not a dog....

Day 9 of Training

Celebrate good times, c'mon!

The May-naics decided to have a little pre-graduation celebration this evening. All of the families came (except one whose mommy had a migraine - ouch!) and ate, drank and were merry. The room looked fabulous thanks to Tammy's (Trey and SD Promise) wonderful touch! She had decorations, gift bags filled with thoughtful gifts including the best of all...
a scrapbook with everyone's name and home address so we can keep in touch!
This is Tammy and Dell. They had their sons, Trey and Jake at training. They are really wonderful people!
This is Sue and Don with Grandpa Lavern and Grandma Bevy. The cute little guy in front is Nick and he received SD Liese.
Kristin was the kid magnet! It seemed that wherever Kristin alighted, the children flocked! Her little girl, Alexa received SD Joy and her other daughter, Ciarra, came for a weekend durin training. All three are amazing women.
On the right is Alex, Angela and Billy's mom Beth. Her hubby, Bill, is probably playing with the kids. They are a really nice family. They received SD Treasure. On the left is Angela and her daughter, Sarah, is sitting at the table with them. She is just about the cutest thing on two legs. Katherine, her sister, stayed at home and dad had to leave a week into training. They received SD Wonder.


Prior to the celebration, we took a trip to K Mart and did some tracking practice with Wyatt and Rexie. Rexie's rate of success was 90%. The one time she did not find him right away was when he moved! She went to the spot he was, and then the little bugger doubled back and tricked her! The rest of the time Rexie was spot-on! Tomorrow are the access tests and graduation (if we pass!)

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

Day 8 of Training

HOUDINI!!

One of our biggest challenges with Wyatt is his tendency to vanish into thin air. Today, at the mall, Jeremy showed us how to further train Rexie to track Wyatt in tight places like stores. This is not the same as open air tracking that some dogs are contracted to do. This is when Rexie has a starting point of reference and is able to locate Wyatt based on scent that lingers in his wake. Wyatt and Jeremy made three or four turns in a store and "disappeared" into clothes racks. Steve and Rexie "found him" 4 out of 5 times! Woo Hoo! The last time that she did not locate him, Wyatt did not start from a point of reference for Rexie. It was a "cold trail" track and she is not ready for that yet. We will continue her training at home so she is able to find Wyatt when he disappears. The store is our greatest nemesis for this. Wyatt does not take off from home and become lost, but this is a VERY real concern for many parents with non-verbal children.
Do you see Wyatt in this picture? Rexie saw him with her nose! Locating Wyatt in stores is just another way this wonder dog is going to make our lives so much more secure!
The chillin' children. Rexie and her human siblings bonding on the hide-a-bed. The place we are staying is very nice ans VERY accommodating. A complimentary breakfast is enjoyed with our 4 Paws families who are staying here and they also serve complimentary dinners on Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednesdays. The staff are very nice when it comes to the dogs. Actually, the staff in general are extremely nice! It costs a bit more (about $20 per night) than the other hotels, but having a two room suite with a full kitchen, breakfasts every morning, evening popcorn, and dinners covered for six days of our stay has MORE than made up for the initial investment.
Wyatt had a hairy-mother kicking, screaming, crying, snotty tears fest meltdown last night. It lasted over an hour. Rexie was really good about staying in an "over" and then a "lap" and then a "down" next to her boy the entire time. Eventually Wyatt recovered his bearings and for Rexie's unconditional love and support what did she get?
She got decorated like the Pharaoh Queen of Egypt. Wyatt brushed her, and then he decided she needed a little accessorizing. Funny. It seemed to calm him down, and Rexie did not seem to mind too much.
This is a picture of some of our 4 Paws friends and families (enjoying the dinner I mentioned). The little girl in the wheelchair is Alexa, and Levi has taken to her like crazy. They bug each other non-stop.


We are starting to get a little sad that the end of our 4 Paws time is drawing near. We have met some really great people who are really amazing, patient parents of ovals. I am continually amazed by our 4 Paws experience and the families who are a part of it. We are blessed.

Monday, May 12, 2008

Day 7 of Training

Sweet Dreams....

This is the image I woke up to this morning! How sweet is that? Wyatt has been sleeping without the aid of his melatonin this trip (forgot to pack), so we were quite worried that sleep was going to be an issue. We have been pleasantly surprised that it has not been. Rexie is a champion sleeper! She tries to sleep in class. She tries to sleep in the car. She tries to sleep at the hotel. She SNORES at night - ha ha! We refer to her as our Zen doggie. Really, she is laid back like a dead fly. She likes to play ball for about three tosses. She like to run around outside for about five minutes. What she REALLY likes to do is hold down the carpeting to make sure it does not float away! This is Sarah and Alysse on tricycles at 4 Paws. They were having a good time racing around. Sarah is five, so she is a bit older than Alysse, but still a lot of fun! Sarah received Wonder as her dog. He is an awesome dog :)
Billy and Wyatt are playing together on the computer. Billy is 6 and his brother and sister, Alex and Angela are at 4 Paws as well. It is great for the kids to have someone to play with.
This is Jeremy, the head trainer. Alysse was acting as his personal assistant today. It was really funny. Kids and dogs are very much alike it seems, as she followed every command Jeremy gave her. Jeremy told her to stand on a square and she stood there FOR-EVER just happy as a clam. Then Jeremy had her moving boxes for the seizure game so the dogs couldn't alert from remembering where the box was. Looks like we know who to turn Rexie's training over to.... maybe in a few years.
I thought you might want to see our Rexie's snazzy outfit. She looks very professional - don't you think? Tomorrow we go back to the mall to practice some more. Our public access test is on Thursday, so Jeremy wants us all to get more practice in. I really don't think he wants any of us to fail!
Here are all the commands that we have learned to use so far (that I can think can think of at this time) ...
sit, down, under, place, stand, heel, over, drop it, leave it, come, play dead, shake, high five, lap, touch, kisses, speak, find him, and no. I am sure there are others, but my brain is fuzzy right now!

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Day 6 of Training

Happy Mother's Day!This is that one day a year when moms everywhere are recognized for the work they do, and thanked for it. We get plenty of thanks in sloppy kisses, squishy hugs and "nuggles" throughout the year, but it is kind of nice to get the royal treatment every now and again. I hope everyone remembered to thank their mommies for the love and encouragement they show! I like Mother's Day because I get to think about my super kids and my awesome husband who have made my life an amazing journey! For my Mother's day feast, we journeyed to ...Uh-huh. Apparently, I get to be a royal on some tropical Italian island. I am treated to Pizza Hut for my Mother's Day feast! The nice part is that EVERYONE behaved amazingly well! There were no fights at the table, Rexie stayed in her "down under" the table and we enjoyed a pleasant meal. When the kids got antsy, we allowed them to treat Rexie (with her regular food) and praise her with a "good down!" bit of praise. She is truly an affection hound. The edible reinforcers are just icing on the cake for her. She follows commands very well with just verbal praise coupled with a good petting. Today, class consisted of HOURS of work for the seizure dogs, and Rexie kind of had an easy day doing basic command work and snuggling/bonding with her boy.

We learned about dog toys and accessibility laws. The toys discussion was actually pretty interesting. I have learned so much in the last 6 days! There are no laws governing dog toys, and no recalls. Many dogs have died from cheap toys, rawhide, bones, and balls that are not appropriate. Cheap toys and plastic bowls often have lead in the plastic. If there is one thing I DO NOT need it is a service dog that becomes cognitively impaired from its chewy toys! Rawhide is indigestible and will slip down a dog's throat. Rawhide is a major culprit of intestinal blockage. Intestinal blockage means expensive surgery (if you are quick enough) or death. YIKES! Real animal bones will splinter and embed themselves into the dog's stomach or intestines. Again - YIKES! Raquetballs and other small balls will jam themselves into the dog's trachea when they go to catch/fetch them. Like I said, I am learning a bunch of new information. I know that some people will say, "Well, I never had a dog die from______." True, but we really don't want to take a chance with this amazing dog. An ounce of prevention is better than a pound of cure!
This is where Rexie rides in the VanGogh. :) Usually, her head is on Wyatt's lap, but he picked it up for the picture. She is really patient and tolerant. Rexie is a really great "fit" for our family. Jeremy, the head trainer, did an amazing job matching her to our family and one special litle boy...
This is what puppy love looks like. Yea Rexie and Wyatt! Thank you 4 Paws and all the people who made this possible!

Saturday, May 10, 2008

Day 5 Training

Adventures in the mall...


Day 5 of training was mostly an outing to the mall. Ask any parent of three children, "Where would you like to spend your sunny, beautiful Saturday?" and I can say with almost absolute certainty that, "The mall" would not appear in their top 5 choices! However, the mall was the assignment, so to the mall we went. Rexie was the best behaved of our "children" with Wyatt in a close second! He did really well. He liked holding on to his girl's short leash and stayed near. When he did let go of the leash to check something out, Rexie tried to go after him! It was very cool. We rewarded that behavior with lots of praise and a couple of puperoni pieces. We want her to be aware of Wyatt and his tangents so she can help us when he does a Houdini. Wyatt's favorite place - THE BOOK STORE! Rexie ended up going into a pretty lengthy "down" there due to Wyatt's interest. She even listened to Wyatt read three books to her. It was very cute. She looked like she was listening (wish I could have snapped a pic of that.)
Many people stop to ask about Rexie and what her job is. Most people assume she is a guide dog and Wyatt does not have sight! I think we are going to have to get cards made that have the 4 Paws logo and the different types of dogs they train. I don't really want to tell people, "She's an autism assistance dog." I don't want Wyatt to attach that label to himself. He simply says, "She's a service dog." That is good enough for most people. A few I have had to say that 4 Paws trains seizure assistance, autism assistance, mobility, and hearing ear dogs. Then I just don't offer additional info on what particular type Rexie is.
Levi wanted his picture taken too. Apparently he wants to be a Brit too! He is a pretty spiffy kid when he gets cleaned up. :)
If Levi wants to be a dressed up guy, Alysse wants to be a princess. This shop is just her style.
Well, our mall experience was a success. Jeremy, the head trainer, hasn't flunked us out yet. One funny thing did happen. Rexie tucked tail and was shaking all over when we went near the photo booth - you know- one of those ones that eight people pile in and you make goofy faces and then the strip of four photos come out... She was terrified of it! So, I bribed her with treats to go near it and then she was kind of okay. She still gives it VERY wide berth whenever we go near! We'll see what tomorrow brings...

Friday, May 9, 2008

Day 4 of Training!

Parade!
Steve is walking with one of our classmates, Nick, and Grandma Bevy. Alysse is zipping around using Nick's walker and Levi is bringing up the rear. One of the coolest things about class is that all of the parents and siblings understand about oval souls in a round world. Our classmates' parents all help each other by looking out for one another's kids. It is pretty cool. Play time!
Wyatt zoomed around on this wheeled therapy round and Rexie wanted to get in on the action. At one point, she was pushing him with her rear paws while her front paws were on him. It was hilarious to watch!



There is a play area at 4 Paws tha the kids hang out in. This is Wyatt in the play area with Rexie. The other dogs were all working on the "seizure shirt" game, and since Rexie is not a seizure alert dog, we took the opportunity to bond a bit. Can I just tell you that the seizure shirt game is really cool? Really. We all burst into applause when the dogs alert to the shirt that has seizure smell to it. It was really amazing.
Treasure and his boy, Alex. He is really a cute kid. Alex and one other clasmate have something called Dravet, which is a severe seizure disorder. Treasure alerted Alex's parents to a seizure in class yesterday (not the same thing as the seizure shirt game.)
All in all, we are having a very positive experience here. THe kids went swimming with dad last night while mom did laundry. Everything and everyone is officially clean! :)



Thursday, May 8, 2008

Day 3 of Training

Off to class!
I think it is funny that Wyatt awakens early and happy to go to class. He is eager to learn how he and Rexie will learn new tricks. Actually, Rexie has been well trained in the "tricks" especially for Wyatt, but he doesn't know that.
Play ball! Wyatt and Rexie really like to play ball together. It is really cute, because at 4 Paws we use balls during class to try to desensitize the dogs to extraneous distractions, so Rexie requires a bit of encouragement to go after the ball. She is a very laid back dog. Some of the dogs in class snap to commands, but Rexie is a plodder. She is not excitable and not really flappable either. Other dogs wanted to jump up and play or broke command, but Rexie kind of looked like she was thinking, "Ummm...ball....hmmm...looks like fun.....might get a correction....hmmm...not worth it." Steve and I kid that she is like a little old lady. She is not really big on getting wet. Jeremy, the head trainer at 4 Paws, said she was too prissy. Funny. She is very sweet and laid back. She is almost a little shy.
This is our lady doing her best and most important job. Wyatt has a tether from his belt loop to Rexie's harness. He is also holding on to a short leash to make sure that his dog "doesn't get away." Rexie did great at the mall. We ate in the food court and she did a great "under" the table. She was startled once and did get up when a big, loud double garbage bin roller went by. She went right back down though...GOOD GIRL!


Wyatt had a meltdown with crying, pouting and thrashing toward the end of class today. Rexie did a FABULOUS job of quelling the behavior. We put Rexie in an "over" on Wyatt's lap. Then we gave Wyatt treats and told her to tell Rexie all about the unfairness of life. Rexie spent a good amount of time trying to "nuzzle" the treats out of Wyatt's hands and giving him "kisses." I will say that Wyatt's attitude and the duration of the meltdown were definitely improved in a much shorter than normal period of time.

Only one ugly note for today. I guess our prissy girl has a sensitive stomach, and the number treats that she has consumed over the past two days detrimentally effected her potty habits. I can honestly say that the mess I cleaned up today was worse than anything I have EVER experienced in thirteen years of teaching and ten years of parenting. Holy stench, Batman! Note to self - a few treats are good. LOTS of treats are very, very, very bad! Blech!

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Day 2 of Training!

Wyatt and Rexie are practicing the "Sit!" command. Rexie has it down to a science...Wyatt is a work in progress :)

This is a demonstration of the "Over" command. This is used for when Wyatt is out of sorts and needs a little love from his dog. Rexie will get a lot of experience in this during schoolwork time and homework time as well. The idea is that dogs don't tell kids to "do" anything. It is natural instinct for kids to pet the dog in this position, which leads to self-soothing behavior. It is kind of like a live, interactive lovey for a really big toddler. :) If you have ever witnessed a meltdown, you would TOTALLY understand the analogy!

This is Alysse and Wyatt hanging out with Rexie at the hotel. At one point, they both had their tongues hanging out, but then Rexie tried to give them kisses when they did that. Neither child was really interested in taking that particular part of their relationship to the next level - ha ha.
This might look like a game, but kids who have sensory issues crave serious deep pressure. Rexie, the incredible weighted blanket, will provide this type of intervention to calm and regulate Wyatt's proprioceptive system. An overstimulated kid is NOT a happy camper. Deep pressure for our sensory disregulated kids is the Holy Grail.

What Rexie and Wyatt are lying on is her "Place." When Rexie goes to school with Wyatt she will have a "Place" there as well. Her "Place" is like a crate without walls. She can sit, stand, lay chew a bone, or do anything other appropriate activity on her "place." The rule is she needs to keep 2 paws on her "place" or else she gets a correction. (A correction consists of a firm, "No," and no treats. Desired behavior is reinforced with a, "Good sit" or "Good place" and a treat.) We are learning a LOT at 4 Paws. Tomorrow we venture into the public and work on tethering so we don't lose Houdini. More pics and posts tomorrow!

PICTURES!! Day one!

The anticipation of meeting his forever friend. This is Wyatt gazing at the dog that he knows will be his! The TREAT HOUND strikes! Rexie was having so much fun with those beggin' strips taht she decided to get a little closer to the source! What you can't see is Wyatt's face grainning and laughing as Rexie was going for the treat pouch!

Treats and giggles are both good! Wyatt told us Rexie "tickled" when she ate her treats.Rexie and Wyatt are going to make brushing a great time for them to share. Wyatt spent about 45inutes brushing her, and she was very happy to be loved on by him!